October 4 2007Domestic violence and abuse
Dominance — Abusive individuals need to feel in charge of the relationship.
Humiliation — An abuser will do everything he can to make you feel bad about yourself, or defective in some way. Isolation — In order to increase your dependence on him, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world.
Humiliation — An abuser will do everything he can to make you feel bad about yourself, or defective in some way. Isolation — In order to increase your dependence on him, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world.
Threats — Abusers commonly use threats to keep their victims from leaving or to scare them into dropping charges.
He may also threaten to commit suicide, file false charges against you, or report you to child services.
Intimidation — Your abuser may use a variety of intimation tactics designed to scare you into submission.
Denial and blame — Abusers are very good at making excuses for the inexcusable.
They will blame their abusive and violent behavior on a bad childhood, a bad day, and even on the victims of their abuse.
Entry for October 05, 2007
The Other Woman - Slut! Tramp! Homewrecker!
The thing is, the other woman is a woman - pure and simple. The only difference between you and her is that she is in a relationship with a committed partner. Trouble is, he's not committed to her.
Here are the signs to be keen of.... a LYING CHEATING SPOUSE
1. Fingers or hand over the mouth
2. Fingers of hand over an ear
3. Fingers or hand over the eyes
Any of these can give away a strong signal if this is done right at the moment of a lie.
Many of them will change the type of music that they listen to, or the clothes that they wear, sometimes right down to the type of underwear that they prefer. They will also become overly possessive of their cell phones and computer usage.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Three-Tricks-You-Can-Use-To-Catch-A-Cheating-Lover&id=727226
It’s not easy to yell: “You can kiss my backside goodbye” even if you are being treated badly.
: www.guyanesevibes.com/love.htm
They call each other soulmate. She threatens me, asking me to leave, rude to me and tells him otherwise. Of course I am hurt and wish to get out of the triangle
meaning soulmate
and what am I who is married to him for more than 28 years who gave birth and raises his children, who stood by him when we had nothing to eat but porridge, who didnt eat for days just to see him able to work, who had to carried buckets of water for about 2 kilometers just that his children and him are able to clean themselves, who went to work to support the family to eat and at the end of the day had nothing at all for egg nest, who ..... what am I ratting about ... I am invisible.
It is easy for her to accept a $2000 camera when the children in the house were fed with money earned by the wife, go to dinners when the wife and children never step into those places that she and he dined
She demanded that he accoounted his whereabouts with sms while I kept mum for years and sms him to telling him about my condition (when waiting for result for cancer diagnose) and told him that she was being supportive and when she calls me insulted me by saying that I should let the man go cos I am dying.
When I finally blow my top she reports that I was abusive when she was the one who insulted me with her sms and phone calls. I ask if someone phones and text message your man every 2 seconds and says that she is doing it to be supportive of him enduring pain of losing meYet when talking to wife was insulting and rude, do I have the right to be angry???????
Any of these can give away a strong signal if this is done right at the moment of a lie.
Many of them will change the type of music that they listen to, or the clothes that they wear, sometimes right down to the type of underwear that they prefer. They will also become overly possessive of their cell phones and computer usage.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Three-Tricks-You-Can-Use-To-Catch-A-Cheating-Lover&id=727226
It’s not easy to yell: “You can kiss my backside goodbye” even if you are being treated badly.
: www.guyanesevibes.com/love.htm
They call each other soulmate. She threatens me, asking me to leave, rude to me and tells him otherwise. Of course I am hurt and wish to get out of the triangle
meaning soulmate
and what am I who is married to him for more than 28 years who gave birth and raises his children, who stood by him when we had nothing to eat but porridge, who didnt eat for days just to see him able to work, who had to carried buckets of water for about 2 kilometers just that his children and him are able to clean themselves, who went to work to support the family to eat and at the end of the day had nothing at all for egg nest, who ..... what am I ratting about ... I am invisible.
It is easy for her to accept a $2000 camera when the children in the house were fed with money earned by the wife, go to dinners when the wife and children never step into those places that she and he dined
She demanded that he accoounted his whereabouts with sms while I kept mum for years and sms him to telling him about my condition (when waiting for result for cancer diagnose) and told him that she was being supportive and when she calls me insulted me by saying that I should let the man go cos I am dying.
When I finally blow my top she reports that I was abusive when she was the one who insulted me with her sms and phone calls. I ask if someone phones and text message your man every 2 seconds and says that she is doing it to be supportive of him enduring pain of losing meYet when talking to wife was insulting and rude, do I have the right to be angry???????
Entry for October 05, 2007
my dilemma
Is she a victim or a vixen? A brazen hussy or the girl next door?
Cheaters never win at love
Warning signs of depression/suicide:
* Isolation or withdrawal from family, friends, and activities * Eating too much or too little * Sleeping too much or too little * Unexplained fatigue * Losing interest in personal appearance * Taking unnecessary risks * Hostility *Alcohol or drug abuse
Last nite he cant even deny that he stills carrying an affair with the bitch Most probably consulting her on how abt the office politics. As long as with her then the office will continue to punish them especially him .... hey we have been married for 28 long years and she decided to upstage me, asking me to leave and pretending to pity and support my husband while I was waiting for mycancer diagnose. She text message him and offered pity almost every seconds while telling me to go off somewhere to die.
Entry for October 03, 2007
Domestic Violence Escape Kit
http://youtube.com/watch?v=hjUf8-LZJwM
Pack a survival kit.
Money for cab fare
A change of clothes
Extra house and car keys
Birth certificates
Driver’s license or passport
Medications and copies of prescriptions
Insurance information
Checkbook
Credit cards
Legal documents such as separation agreements and protection orders
Address books
Valuable jewelry
Papers that show jointly owned assets
then walk out with confidence
People found out. He and his mistress became a laughingstock at work
He's never going to leave, because he has everything he needs right now — her for sex and emotional attachment, and his wife for security. Why should he leave? He has the best of both worlds!
He/she happened to be in the right spot at the right time. They are nothing special. Your spouse was looking for an affair, not looking for them in particular.
Don’t Make The Other Person More Important Than They Really Are
See The Relationship For What It Really Is: FANTASY
They Are An Illusion
Don’t Internalize Your Feelings - Such feelings can lead to depression, self – loathing and anxiety.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA-4F6l-jr4
Entry for October 03, 2007
Domestic violence and abuseDominance — Abusive individuals need to feel in charge of the relationship.
Humiliation — An abuser will do everything he can to make you feel bad about yourself, or defective in some way. Isolation — In order to increase your dependence on him, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world. Threats — Abusers commonly use threats to keep their victims from leaving or to scare them into dropping charges. He may also threaten to commit suicide, file false charges against you, or report you to child services. Intimidation — Your abuser may use a variety of intimation tactics designed to scare you into submission. Denial and blame — Abusers are very good at making excuses for the inexcusable. They will blame their abusive and violent behavior on a bad childhood, a bad day, and even on the victims of their abuse.
Most people assume that a person stuck in a bad marriage has two choices: stay married and miserable or get a divorce and become happier
my dilemma
Is she a victim or a vixen? A brazen hussy or the girl next door?
Cheaters never win at love
Warning signs of depression/suicide:
* Isolation or withdrawal from family, friends, and activities * Eating too much or too little * Sleeping too much or too little * Unexplained fatigue * Losing interest in personal appearance * Taking unnecessary risks * Hostility *Alcohol or drug abuse
Last nite he cant even deny that he stills carrying an affair with the bitch Most probably consulting her on how abt the office politics. As long as with her then the office will continue to punish them especially him .... hey we have been married for 28 long years and she decided to upstage me, asking me to leave and pretending to pity and support my husband while I was waiting for mycancer diagnose. She text message him and offered pity almost every seconds while telling me to go off somewhere to die.
Entry for October 03, 2007
Domestic Violence Escape Kit
http://youtube.com/watch?v=hjUf8-LZJwM
Pack a survival kit.
Money for cab fare
A change of clothes
Extra house and car keys
Birth certificates
Driver’s license or passport
Medications and copies of prescriptions
Insurance information
Checkbook
Credit cards
Legal documents such as separation agreements and protection orders
Address books
Valuable jewelry
Papers that show jointly owned assets
then walk out with confidence
People found out. He and his mistress became a laughingstock at work
He's never going to leave, because he has everything he needs right now — her for sex and emotional attachment, and his wife for security. Why should he leave? He has the best of both worlds!
He/she happened to be in the right spot at the right time. They are nothing special. Your spouse was looking for an affair, not looking for them in particular.
Don’t Make The Other Person More Important Than They Really Are
See The Relationship For What It Really Is: FANTASY
They Are An Illusion
Don’t Internalize Your Feelings - Such feelings can lead to depression, self – loathing and anxiety.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA-4F6l-jr4
Entry for October 03, 2007
Domestic violence and abuseDominance — Abusive individuals need to feel in charge of the relationship.
Humiliation — An abuser will do everything he can to make you feel bad about yourself, or defective in some way. Isolation — In order to increase your dependence on him, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world. Threats — Abusers commonly use threats to keep their victims from leaving or to scare them into dropping charges. He may also threaten to commit suicide, file false charges against you, or report you to child services. Intimidation — Your abuser may use a variety of intimation tactics designed to scare you into submission. Denial and blame — Abusers are very good at making excuses for the inexcusable. They will blame their abusive and violent behavior on a bad childhood, a bad day, and even on the victims of their abuse.
Most people assume that a person stuck in a bad marriage has two choices: stay married and miserable or get a divorce and become happier
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